My job as a parent is done.
Child #4 is graduating from University this week.
I’m not saying I don’t get that whole empty nest thing, but my kids do point out that not every mother moves to another country the week her youngest child leaves for college. Hey, it’s not that they can’t ever move back in with me if they need to. Of course (foreign country!), they would first need to get a work visa, for which they would need a job, which (if they had one) would mean they wouldn’t move in with me on a bet. Yup, I’m all about the being there for them.
So when it came time to look for this week’s Friday Five challenge, I clicked on that new section “Graduation Books”. And—what are the odds?—the perfect life inspiration book popped up right at the top. Adulting: How to Become a Grown-up in 468 Easy(ish) Steps by Kelly Williams Brown.
Rosie Amber’s Friday Five challenge is to take ONLY FIVE MINUTES to browse an unfamiliar category and select a book based solely on the cover art.
Book blurb:
If you graduated from college but still feel like a student . . . if you wear a business suit to job interviews but pajamas to the grocery store . . . if you have your own apartment but no idea how to cook or clean . . . it’s OK. But it doesn’t have to be this way.
Just because you don’t feel like an adult doesn’t mean you can’t act like one. And it all begins with this funny, wise, and useful book. Based on Kelly Williams Brown’s popular blog, ADULTING makes the scary, confusing “real world” approachable, manageable-and even conquerable. This guide will help you to navigate the stormy Sea of Adulthood so that you may find safe harbor in Not Running Out of Toilet Paper Bay, and along the way you will learn:
- What to check for when renting a new apartment-Not just the nearby bars, but the faucets and stove, among other things.
- When a busy person can find time to learn more about the world- It involves the intersection of NPR and hair-straightening.
- How to avoid hooking up with anyone in your office — Imagine your coworkers having plastic, featureless doll crotches. It helps.
- The secret to finding a mechanic you love-Or, more realistically, one that will not rob you blind.
From breaking up with frenemies to fixing your toilet, this way fun comprehensive handbook is the answer for aspiring grown-ups of all ages.
BUY LINKS:
Book Title: Adulting: How to Become a Grown-up in 468 Easy(ish) Steps by Kelly Williams Brown
Price: $3.85/£1.27 (Paperback–published by Grand Central Publishing, May 7, 2013)
Reviews: 217 for a total of 4.3 out of 5 stars
Pages: 288
My Analysis: This was such a fast decision. I could say that I looked at the price, the reviews, the table of contents… But the fact is that I clicked on the LOOK INSIDE! option and opened to the first page.
Hell, yeah. Sold.Step 1: Accept that you are not that special. This is the most difficult and important thing to accept if you wish to be a grown-up: You are not a Special Snowflake.
BUY or PASS: BUY
(But just in case she needs some reinforcement… Here’s a how-to lesson written by big sister Melinda.)
Here is Rosie’s Friday Five Challenge. It only took five minutes and a couple more to write up, and was a ton of fun. I hope you’ll consider joining in. All Rosie asks is that you link back to her original post here so we can all join in viewing your challenge results.
AUTHORS – You often only have seconds to get a reader to buy your book, is your book cover and book bio up to it?
My Friday Five Challenge is this….. IN ONLY FIVE MINUTES….
- Go to any online book supplier,
- Randomly choose a category,
- Speed through the book covers, choose one which has instantly appealed to your eye,
- Read the book Bio/ Description for this book, and any other details.
- If there are reviews, check out a couple,
- Make an instant decision, would you BUY or PASS?
- I’ll be back next week with another Friday Five Challenge, do feel free to join in.
Rosie Amber said:
Good choice, I can see a big market for this book at this time of year. I like this look and the sound of this book, plus the price is appealing. I would BUY this too
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barbtaub said:
Alas, I tried to buy on Amazon UK but they’re out. So I’m having it hand-carried from the States by one of my kids coming to the graduation. Possibly not the most efficient way to get this one, but the kindle version is only available in Spanish!
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mallocgmail said:
me too
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shelleywilson72 said:
Love the cover! It would be a buy from me too, I’ve been an adult (in body) for a while, but I’m still not sure what I’m doing ha ha. As Rosie said, perfect time to purchase this book as students prepare for Uni. Great choice.
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barbtaub said:
Thanks, Shelley! I can’t wait to read it myself. (I’m really planning on being a grown-up too. One of these days…)
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Cathy said:
Yes, a buy for me too. I’m going to remember the ‘you are not a special snowflake’ Love it!
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barbtaub said:
Unfortunately, the book isn’t available on Amazon UK. But you can visit the author’s hilariously wonderful blog [http://adultingblog.com/ ] Sadly, she seems to have recently stopped updating the blog, but there are still a lot of great posts there, including my faves, the flowcharts.
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judithbarrow1 said:
Reblogged this on Barrow Blogs: .
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barbtaub said:
THANK YOU! I can’t tell you how flattering your reblogs are. I really do appreciate it.
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judithbarrow1 said:
The “stormy Sea of Adulthood” Should I tell the grandson it never stops once you get on board? Hmm … no let him go to uni in blissful ignorance. He’ll soon find out. . Might just slip this book in his suitcase though.He ‘ll have four years to absorb the advice
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barbtaub said:
I’d let the poor kid go a few more years in that blissful ignorance. But if you absolutely have to burst his bubble, you could ease into it by sending him the blog link–http://adultingblog.com/
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junekearns said:
Have I read it right, Barb? Did your daughter write the script for that You Tube clip?
Oh, wow. Like mother, like daughter. Soo good!!
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barbtaub said:
Yes, Melinda is a very talented comedy writer. (Currently writing for upcoming TV show in Hollywood–brags her proud mama.)
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Rosie Amber said:
I forgot to say I loved the video clip, clever girl.
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Georgia Rose said:
Fabulous video – clever child of yours!! I need two of these books and it’s a damned nuisance I can’t get them in the UK but shall circulate the blog link instead – thanks for finding this little treasure Barb 🙂
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barbtaub said:
It’s annoying that they are out of stock. Sorry about that! And thanks for the comments on Melinda’s video.
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Terry Tyler said:
Another one that holds about as much interest for me as all those others people choose about dogs…!!! I can see this is MY problem, though!!! Yeah, I can see it’s a good buy though :). Having said all this – that Step 1 made me want to buy it IMMEDIATELY for my precocious niece – hey, what the hell, it’s a BUY from me too!!!
ps, just watched the video – it’s so good!!!! Melinda’s an actress, right?? If not she sure as hell should be. I still defrost chicken in the shower, by the way. And forget my husband lives here when I…..
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barbtaub said:
Melinda is an actress, but primarily a writer. She writes comedy (currently a writer in Hollywood for new show now in production) and author of YA including Still Star-Crossed (a sequel to Romeo & Juliet). But she wrote the video and it was shot in her apartment using an actress wearing Melinda’s wardrobe, so it was pretty fun for me to see. Here’s Melinda– (Sorry—I have NO idea how to make this picture smaller!)
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Terry Tyler said:
What a rocking daughter, how proud you must be. Ha ha – I’ve had that problem with photos too – it’s even worse when it’s one of yourself! I had that problem on the bottom of my blog, so changed it to something that isn’t my terrifying enormous face!!!
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