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antisemitism, Arran, hate speech, politics, religion, Scotland
‘Home is the place where, when you have to go there, They have to take you in.’ —Robert Frost, The Death of the Hired Man
Arran took us in and gave us a home. Now someone thinks they can tell us to leave.
The first time I saw the magical island off the coast of Scotland, I just thought Arran was a lovely spot, one I wanted to see again. But there’s something about this little island that keeps people coming back until they have no choice but to call it home. At least, that’s how it worked for us.
We looked at a few places and then we saw the stone house on the hillside. The owner’s friend who showed us the house gave us coffee and explained why we should live here. The neighbors one house over sat us down, gave us coffee, and explained why we should live here. At the Bay Stores in the village, Clair gave us coffee, and the rest of the regulars told us why we should live here. We thought the house might need a bit of paint, but basically we agreed: we should live here.
We found a loo—it was a lot of coffee—and then called the estate agents and bought the stone house. (And okay, as I wrote here maybe it needed a bit more than paint. And wiring. And floors. It really needed floors…)
But none of that mattered, because Arran took us in. Literally EVERYONE we met welcomed us, offered advice and help and the occasional translation from Scots to American. We lived through Covid and Calmac and Storm Éowyn. We joined groups, took classes, and taught classes, and tried to give back.
We got a phone call last summer from a total stranger who said his name was Ben Fogle and that he wanted to talk to us about being Jews living on Arran as part of a new series to be called Sacred Islands that he was filming for the BBC. As Americans without TV, we had no idea who he was. But he turned up with an entire film crew and we showed him how to make bagels and braided challah bread.
None of that prepared us for the day in February when a package was left at our house. Inside was a collection of racially targeted items and an anonymous letter claiming to speak “on behalf of all here on the beautiful Isle of Arran” — to tell us that we needed to leave.
We told the police, of course, who advised us to get better security (or, in fact, any security at all that didn’t rely on the world’s friendliest collie.) So we installed the security system and tried not to think about how we went from not locking our doors to running CCTV 24/7.
But we also told people we knew on Arran what happened. Their universal reaction was the same. “That’s not Arran. We don’t do that.”
Then last week another package was delivered. It also contained a random assortment of items that varied from racist to just plain weird. And it included another ‘letter’ telling us to leave Arran, as well as the bizarrely whiny complaint, “You have now installed cameras. This is not a good sign since really Arran is not the kind of place to require this.”
So Arran, here’s my challenge.
I am passionately in favor of free speech. Here in the UK, freedom of expression is granted via Article 10 of the European Convention on Human Rights, as applied in British law through the Human Rights Act 1998. People get to spout their hate-fueled views and I will defend their right to say so. Indeed, I would support a free exchange of ideas where representatives from opposing groups would actually meet to discuss their point of view.
But that right stops when those views advocate harmful actions based on someone’s race, religion, or other group identifier. So I am challenging Arran residents to answer these questions.
- Does an anonymous coward get to speak for us?
- Do they get to intimidate those whose religion or perhaps race they dislike into leaving?
- Do political or racist views define us and limit who “deserves” to stay?
Someone out there knows who this coward is. I don’t want to know. But I do hope that if you know who has done this, you will step in and put a stop to it. Because that’s NOT Arran. We don’t do this.
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Oh Barb, I’m so sorry to hear about this. I hope someone steps forward to identify that piece of work of a human being.
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It might sound weird, but I really don’t want to know who is doing this. I hate the thought that someone I might see regularly on Arran could be that arrogant and think they are somehow appointed to racist righteousness. So my hope is that someone out there who knows what’s going on (and there probably IS someone) will put a stop to this.
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I completely understand. I would probably feel the same way.
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Stay strong Barb. You are right to call this nasty, malicious person to account. x
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Thanks Judith! Fingers-crossed this will put a stop to this behavior.
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This is incredibly awful. This story really took a turn I was not expecting. I know this is an understatement from where you sit. Yes. You are a small island and someone surely knows , my hope is that they will step up and do the right thing, as a friend, a neighbor, but also just as a decent human being. I am so sorry that this has happened to you and shows that it can truly happen anywhere- I hope for a quick resolution to this awful chapter on this otherwise lovely island. ❤️
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You’re so right Beth. I choose to believe that all the things and people I love here on Arran are still there. And that someone will step in and put a stop to this racist posturing.
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I’m so sorry this happened to you!
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Thanks, Mary. I’m sorry too!
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I am so sorry, Barb. The first package was despicable and unsettling, but I’d thought that there’d be nothing more. To hear of a second package comes as a shock to me and must be so much more than that to you. People need to judge others based on their merits, not on any umbrella terms that group together millions of very different people as one entity. I’m sure this misguided and malicious person is easily outnumbered by all the other lovely residents of Arran who you can now call friends. Try not to let this get to you. Easier said than done – but this person is a coward who acts anonymously. If anyone does know, or suspects, who is behind this nastiness, I hope they put a stop to it one way or another. You have my love and thoughts.
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I truly don’t want to know who is doing this. At the same time, I can’t help wondering if someone I know is involved, which makes me feel sick. So my hope is that someone knows who is doing this, and points out to them that they are committing a crime, one for which they could go to jail.
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Jesus Mother Fucking Christ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! If you were over here, I’d say the slime is a Trump supporter. Fucking cowards!
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I know what you mean. I’m not saying I would choose to engage in debate over these issues but this person has not tried to discuss anything. That makes them a coward operating anonymously. It takes these actions out of the realm of free speech and squarely positions them as a crime. The police are taking this very seriously, and are absolutely focussed on arresting the person involved.
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When they catch him, please have him deported to this side of the world. I’ll be waiting for him on the dock.
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All joking aside, that’s the thing. I hope I would never try to force someone to leave their home. Here in Scotland, thousands were forced to leave during the Highland Clearances. Given the devastating effects that linger to this day, it’s hard to believe someone would even suggest that approach.
(Well, someone other than POTUS, of course…)
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I am so sorry to hear this.
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Thank you so much. I choose to believe that this is an anomaly, and the overwhelming majority of my neighbors will join in condemning these actions.
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I can o.ly hope that Arran acts to fi d their resident fascist and bans them from Arran for their actions which are not appropriate under any circumstances.
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The police certainly agree with you. They see this as a crime, and are determined to make an arrest.
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Oh, hell, Barb, I know that sort of stuff weighs on a person. Some long-gone US Supreme Court Justice said something along the lines of “My rights end where the other person’s nose begins.” Freedom of speech doesn’t include the right to intimidate, hurt, or silence others.
That said, I like what you’re doing: turning to the community for help dealing with this. I hope they step up.
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Thanks Ellen. I’m sure you’re someone who has encountered intolerance and so you know what you’re talking about. So far, my Arran neighbors have been unanimous in their condemnation of these actions, and in their support for us.
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I have, and I know how much that support matters. Sending strength.
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This is totally unacceptable behaviour. Arran may not be home to me, but it is my happy place, and I am shocked that this is happening. Is no place sacred anymore? Sending much love and hugs.
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I’m choosing to believe that Arran still IS that sacred place. My friends and neighbors here have been nothing but supportive, and all agree that it’s not the Arran way.
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So sorry to hear this Baub and I would say this person is disturbed and is known for it on such a small island… I hope someone steps up and either stops it or reports it. Even with the kindness and friendship you have met from everyone else, it is amazing how the actions of just one person can cause hurt… Arran is your home and you are right to stand up for that. ♥
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Thank you so much Sally! I can’t pretend this hasn’t put a dent in my happy little glow of life on Arran. But as you say, this is my home so I choose to think about all the love and support from my neighbors instead of dwelling on one coward’s opinion. (Still locking the doors and running the cameras though.)
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That’s terrible that anyone would feel they have the right to tell you and your husband to leave the island. I am glad you wrote a post about it though because hopefully it will led to putting public pressure on this hateful person to stop what they are doing. Sending you love and hugs.
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Thanks, Nancy! You must know yourself that as an expat, you’re always walking a fine line. But Arran has truly been my home, with local residents so open and friendly. I have no intention of leaving. I do resent that now I have to think twice about our security, but I still refuse to doubt our welcome.
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Yes, indeed. You stay put as hate has no home on Arran. Hopefully the love you feel from your community there will drive out any hate.
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Hope that’s true Nancy. (And I also hope that one of these days, we’ll get you to visit and see for yourself how special Arran is!)
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That would be lovely. According to my DNA results, my ancestry is about 50% Scottish!
Darlene always has very good things to say about her annual visits to your place for your writing get-togethers as well.
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Oh Barb, this hurts my heart. The hatred that is permeating our world right now terrifies me. You are lucky to have a strong community/family there. Keep fighting the good fight!
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Thanks for those kind words Mary! And yes—I do realize how lucky I am that Arran is responding with overwhelming concern and support.
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Gud on ya Mate! Give the Bugger hell! You belong here as much as anybody else!
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Thanks Ellie! I’ll try to live up to your fierce approach. (And I have no intention of leaving Arran.)
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This is awful! A horrible, cowardly action and so sad that it makes you wonder about the people you know.
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You know what, Cathy? That’s the absolute worst part of this. I don’t want to know who is really behind this because I’m so afraid that it’s an Island neighbor I see all the time. But at the same time, I look at people around me and wonder if one of them is a cowardly racist.
That assault on my feeling of love and security in my Arran home is their true crime.
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Yes indeed. There’s so much horribleness (if that’s a word) in the world, it’s scary.
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Here, here!
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Thanks Jennie! Support accepted.
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I am so sorry to hear this, Barb. Arran sounded like a heavenly place to live and this bas…d has spoiled it for you. This person is the one who should leave. Frankly, the person sounds unhinged. So perhaps the security system is the way to go. I do hope someone manages an identification so you can live peacefully again.
Love and prayers,
Noelle
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Thanks Noelle, for these kind words. But actually, this bas…d has tried but failed to spoil it. Whatever dents they put into my feelings of security here have been more than matched by the overwhelming support of my island neighbors.
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That is heartening to hear. Do not change your life – except for security, which might identify this nut. That’s his or her goal.
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I am so sorry to hear this is happening to you! It seems the US losing it’s collective mind is contagious. I am too old to move again but my daughter is looking for somewhere safe since there is no telling how far the insanity will go here before someone puts a stop to it. I do hope with all my heart that you find out who is doing this to you and get it stopped. What the hell is wrong with people??
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Thank you for your kind words. I don’t know why this person has decided to come after us. But in my experience, most people don’t set out to do something wrong. They do what they think they’re supposed to do, even when someone looking from the outside would probably not agree. In HR, I had to handle embezzling employees, and there was not a single time when the thief didn’t feel they were entitled to what they stole. In this case, the person may have decided they are acting in pursuit of some greater good that justifies their actions.
So even though I can’t condone this person’s actions, I’m just hoping someone else here sees what they are doing and has enough influence to get them to stop, even if it’s just to point out that they are breaking the law and could well end up in prison.
I don’t know what to say to your daughter about moving. Sadly, history doesn’t have a long list of examples of bad behaviour that spontaneously improves without some outside enforcement. At the moment, the US has a government legally elected by a majority. Since I have to conclude that means they have the government they want, I can only be glad I don’t have to live there (even if someone here thinks I should).
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I’m pretty sure they are going to prove there was something hinky that happened with that election. Unfortunately, many misguided souls are living to regret their choices in a huge way.
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I’m really shocked at the second package. It doesnt smack of Arran, or the islands, or of Scotland… and since you are not of a mixed race colouring, or obviously of non-christian (hah, apologies to all real followers of Christ) beliefs, whoever is doing this is not British, or possibly even racist. They do seem to have a bee in their bonnet. A wasp possibly. Something not right in their heads. Something they’ve been jazzed up about online and thought ‘who can I blame for my pain. Picking you as their victim is simply bizarre.
Maybe ask the neighbours if the local doctor could talk to the police?
Keep safe and keep well, and keep your trust in your neighbours.
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While I can’t possible condone this person’s behavior, it does in fact target us as non-Christians and as foreigners. The fact that we’re also hardworking tax payers who are legal residents doesn’t seem to have any effect on their racist actions.
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Ugh – so sorry to hear about this – but so heartened to see the indomitable spirit and true heart of the true majority of love and friendship.
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I wouldn’t wish this on anyone. But you are (as usual) correct Hillary—the overwhelming support and concern shown by our neighbors and others more than makes up for the actions of one loser. Not many people get a chance to have an entire island’s population (minus one) tell them they’re wanted!
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You are so right about Arran. I have been longing to return ever since we visited there in 2019. It is physically beautiful but also living proof of how love grows when people are kind to each other.
Sadly, the weeds of hate can still pop up. (Insert various curse words.) I hope you can get them pulled out by the roots! Hugs!!
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Do you have the possibility to record on your CCTV? So you could see who this sad deranged person is?
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This is probably the point where the poor police officers are staring at each other and scratching their heads. Yes, our cameras DO record, going back about two weeks. Then they record over the oldest bits. I could (and obviously should) have downloaded the recordings before they were recorded over. But it had been several months since the first package, and I stupidly told myself that we didn’t need to keep saving the files. But the recordings we do have clearly show that the package arrived via the Mail. And I didn’t see any suspicious people hanging around and scoping out the place in the days of footage leading up to mailing and delivery.
(The system also can be set to send me a message if anything crosses the sensors, but after my cats set it off about 150 times the first day, I turned that off.)
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