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Paul Curran: virtual barista and raconteur nonpareil
A few years ago, Paul Curran showed up and started adding his smart, funny, witty stories and comments to my blog. That first day, he talked about how his father provided an example for him of the importance of family, hard work, and education. He ended that first story with, “Thanks for the memories, Barb.”
Since then, Paul has added his thoughts, wisdom, and wisecracks to more than fifty of my blog posts. He’s contributed guest posts, and introduced me to other fabulous bloggers like his very good friend, Mark Bialczak, on whose blog he could often be found serving as Sunday guest barista and blogger.
Paul has always impressed me for so many reasons, from his delight in people of every possible walk of life, background, and experience, to his incredibly wide-ranging interests, to his gift for creating word sketches of the characters he’s known. I can’t tell you how often I’ve begged him to put them into a book.
Recently, Paul’s health—already compromised by cancer and dialysis treatments—took a turn for the worse. But when he could write, he apologized for being out of touch, and said he would soon be back. We talked about his plans to move to Vancouver, and made a date to have brunch at Edible Canada on Granville Island.
Mark Bialczak shared sad news today, as he wrote:
We’ve lost Paul Curran, our master guest columnist and prolific comment-leaver
Those of us who’ve grown to love the lively words that bounced from the head and fingers of Paul Curran will never be the same.
The writer from Canada has died, according to his neighbor Steve Watson.
I received this email on the contact tab from my blog:
With great sadness I have to tell you that Paul Curran has passed away. Paul passed last week.
[Please see the rest of Mark’s tribute to Paul here.]
I will always remember Paul for his joy, his wit, and his incredible ability to celebrate the people he’s known. As a small sample, please take a look at the last guest blog Paul hosted for me. “If it has tires or testosterone“. His response to one of the comments was, “I am happy that you are having fun reading my stories. More to come, so stay tuned and please drop by again.”
I hope St. Peter is ready for some fantastic stories, because Paul has so many more to tell.
Thank you for the memories, Paul.
My sympathies, Barb. It’s sad to say goodbye to anyone who was a valued part of your life. I still find it intriguing and, indeed, delightful at the friendships we develop through the words we exchange via the internet. I took the time now to read some of Paul’s guest posts and am glad I did. Thank you for sharing this friendship. I know his words and the memories of your exchanges with him will last forever.
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Thank you for taking the time to read some of Paul’s work. He was a unique soul.
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We are all friends, here on the web. And we lost one today. I am sad and yet glad that his struggles are done — and that his friend Steve understood what a close group we all are and let Mark know.
I’m so sad. 😔. I will miss him.
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It is an amazing and special thing that so many of us who have never physically met feel an emotional connection. And I’m so glad that Paul was part of that.
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So sorry for your loss, Barb. He sounds like a wonderful person. Loved his post about Sarah. And it is odd and wonderful that we all do become true friends here on the web.
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I’ve been thinking for a while now about the purpose of funerals. In the past, it was for the physical comfort and closure of grieving together. And I wonder, in this brave new world, if our blog tributes and comments aren’t providing the virtual equivalent? I never physically met Paul–or any of my fellow mourners. But he touched our community in a very real way, and our shared loss is just as real.
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I’m sorry I didn’t find his blog while he was still posting, but I can’t help thinking he’d have appreciated the tribute. It’s a nice way for anyone to be remembered.
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Actually, Paul never had a blog of his own. In a way, that was a huge part of his charm—he would gift so many of us with his stories and comments.
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I must’ve been reading too quickly and misunderstood–something I’ve been doing a lot lately. Sorry.
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No, actually that’s what ALL of us did where Paul was concerned. No blog? Really? Why? But between unreliable wifi and limited computer access, he just found a better niche with being a commenter.
(Although I know what you mean about misunderstanding stuff lately…but I just prefer to blame it on not having a TV. You’d be amazed at how much that covers!)
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Maybe I’ll blame it on having one. That explains a lot as well.
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A lovely tribute to your friend, Barb. I know Mark, but I didnt know Paul. So sad. Hope you’re ok. RIP Paul.
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I don’t think any of us actually met Paul, although several were trying to set that up. And clearly, there was so much in his life that we couldn’t know or share. But the parts he did give us were wonderful, and I’m so grateful. Thank you so much for stopping by, and for commenting.
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Sorry to hear this Barb, my condolences
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Thank you so much Kate. I really appreciate your comment and your sympathy. (If Paul was here, he would have replied with a comment about the prehistoric origins of the grieving process, and maybe followed it up with a hilarious story about some trucker he knew…)
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Hahaha! he sounds like a great person :0)
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The image you put together here made me smile. Thank you.
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I only ‘met’ Paul this year. I think it was when he commented on a post I did about the Bloggers’ Bash. Then he sent links to some of his wonderful stories and, of course, I read his guest posts on this blog.
He will be missed by many.
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Lovely tribute, Barb. A strand in our community web has been severed.
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