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A few years ago, I spent Memorial Day in Italy, 76 years after my father was stationed there in the Second World War. Somehow it felt oddly right to be there as the world again staggers out of a global conflict, even if this time our enemy was a microscopic one fought with syringes instead of young soldiers.
I had finally gotten vaccinated, and really thought I’d want to celebrate. But as I walked the peaceful rows of the American Cemetery outside of Florence, I was instead remembering my father’s quiet story of how his war ended 76 years earlier.
In all the time in the War there was never a thought of it ending. We didn’t have access to newspapers or radios so we really did not know what was going on. The end was so casual. One of the guys was walking along and said that Germany surrendered…—Tech Sergeant Robert Figel, Radio Operator Gunner on the B-17 Flying Fortress Nobody’s Baby

The calm acres of the Florence American Cemetery contain the graves of over 4,400 young soldiers, and more than 1,400 more names on the Walls of the Missing.
Thanks. And despair.
This year, as we remember and honor the sacrifices of that generation and their world war, I also wonder if they would be sad to see so many fighting and dying today. I hope everyone will take a moment to reflect on the devastation of ongoing war even as we honor our warriors.
For the whole earth is the sepulcher of famous men; and their story is not graven only on stone over their native earth but lives on far away, without visible symbol, woven into the stuff of other men’s lives.—Pericles of Athens, (431 BCE) Oration for the Annual Public Funeral of the War Dead at the end of the first year of the Peloponnesian War
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A beautiful post, Barb. How lovely to honor your dad in this way. What an amazing place this world could be if war were replaced with compassion and cooperation.
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If only.
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what a lovely tribute to your father <3
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Thanks so much Beth!
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This is a lovely tribute Barb. It’s said that any man’s death diminishes me and I find this to be true. I get smaller every year I get older and still the killing doesn’t cease, unfortunately nor do the causes like Facism that bring about the killing and as always the innocent suffer. Hugs
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Thanks David. I must confess that the thing I find the most terrifying is the increasing effort to dehumanize opponents, making it easier to justify taking horrific action against those you can portray as subhuman.
Everyday seems to bring new evidence of those willing to do things they would never contemplate if they saw their targets as being the same as their parents, siblings, children, and friends.
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It resonates here in my little French village where we gather on the 8th of May, VE Day, Victory in Europe to those unaware. On November 11th we return for Armistice Day.
My father was in France for WWII while both my grandfathers served here in WWI. Each French village, regardless of size , has a monument engraved with the names of those who paid the ultimate price. The funding for the monuments was raised by the school children of each and every village
Viva la Belle France 🇫🇷.
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One of the things I’ve found most touching in both France and the UK is the monument in every town and village honoring those lives lost to world wars.
War memorial in Brancepeth churchyard, outside of Durham in northern England: (Inscription: The Great War, 1914-1918 ‘OUR GLORIOUS DEAD’)
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A lovely tribute for you Dad, Barb. My son Patrick got to fly over Normandy in one of the planes that dropped our airborne troops into France (he was selected as a member of the 82nd Airborne) – he spent time in France, met General Eisenhower’s granddaughter, and told me how every place he went, they remembered our sacrifices.
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You must be so proud of him!
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I am! He retired in December after 20 years and is trying to find his way now in the real world. Always a challenge for veterans.
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Well said, Barb. Honestly, I don’t think many Americans realize how many soldiers are buried on foreign soil.
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This is a lovely tribute to your father, and all the fallen heroes.
I visited Oosterbeek and Tyn Cot Cemeteries earlier this year, and was most moved by the graves of those “Known only to God”.
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I think of the parents and others waiting for their loved ones, with no clear picture of when/how they were lost. So very sad.
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How touching. I visited a Canadian War Memorial Cemetery in Holland and was moved to tears. Especially when I saw the ages of many of those buried there. When will it end?
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I’m wondering if we were just stupid to think anything had changed…
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Not necessarily stupid, but a bit naïve perhaps.
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