Rape: does writing about it contribute to rape culture?
Recently I reviewed Heliotrope by JC Miller, a wonderful book set in the Seventies. But it started me thinking about my own life as a young woman back then. Our older sisters and brothers had militantly fought gender and racial equality’s battles, so we were pretty sure that all we had to do was reap the benefits. We would be the first truly equal generation—earning equal pay, respect, and opportunity. We wouldn’t have to hold back or miss any opportunities because they might not be “safe”. Oh, and we’d finish passing the Equal Rights Amendment, and have control of our bodies, our lives, and our flying cars.
I had four children and wanted those things for them. Forty years later, my brand new grandchild is still waiting. As I wrote last year (This time I knew it was going to hurt), few of us have escaped some form of these power crimes. My daughters live in a rape culture which not only treats rape as a facet of normal life, but messages that victims bear responsibility if they are assaulted—because of how they dress, where they go, and what they drink.
Today my guest blogger, Alison Williams, points out that women through the ages have been the victims of power crimes like rape. The question she asks as a writer, is how or even if she should encompass that reality in her historical fiction.
This is a darker subject than many, but one which is so timely. We’ve got very dark roast coffee and an incredibly dense chocolate Guinness cake, so I hope you’ll all grab a plate and a cup and sit over by me. I’d love to know your thoughts.
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Guinness Chocolate Cake. [Be very careful or I might accidentally give you the recipe and you’ll be absolutely forced to make it. Repeatedly…]
Rape: A Mother, Wife, and Feminist Writes
Guest Post By Alison Williams
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Maybe Ellen reads my blog?
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I was very flattered when Barb asked me to write a guest post for her blog. Flattered and a bit intimidated to be honest. I’ve been following the blog for a while now and always look forward to reading new posts – they are usually guaranteed to make me laugh out loud and have, on several occasions, caused me to spit my morning coffee over the keyboard. I’ve also been lucky enough to spend a weekend with Barb and she’s as entertaining in real life as she is on her blog. So I’m not even going to try and be funny. It would be pointless. In fact my subject matter is very dark, but it is something I feel needs to be addressed. So if you’re looking to Barb’s blog for a bit of humour today, I can only apologise.
If I was going to describe myself in three words (and I’m not talking occupation here) they would be – mother, wife, feminist. Feminism is incredibly important to me. Being a feminist is incredibly important to me. Women’s continuing battle for equality is incredibly important to me. My feminism is part of my life. And so it’s important to me when I write too.
My novel ‘The Black Hours’ deals with a very dark time in women’s history. Although men were also falsely accused of witchcraft, it was women who bore the brunt of the hate, the superstition, the vileness that brought terror, torture and death to so many. As part of my research I read some horrific things, things that I can’t now not know. And I wanted to do these women justice, to remember them in my own small way.
The book has been out a while now and I’ve been delighted with the mostly positive response. The main character in my novel, Alice, is raped. I was very worried about writing this scene; I wanted to handle it very carefully, not to sensationalise it in any way. In the end, I wrote a scene that I am very proud of. It isn’t graphic, but it leaves the reader aware, I hope, of how devastating rape is. So I was shocked and surprised when I saw a comment from a reader saying that she found the rape scene ‘tasteless’ and lamented the fact that women always end up as rape victims.
Now, I know that everyone is entitled to their opinions and to express those opinions. I’m a firm believer in the fact that if you put a book out there, then you do so accepting that you will get criticism, and that that’s part of the deal. And I’m not for one minute complaining about this lady’s opinion; because I actually agree with her – to an extent. I too am sick and tired of rape being the default fate for women in many books. If a woman is kidnapped, or robbed, or there is a break in at her apartment in a book I’m reading, I always heave a sigh, waiting for the inevitable rape and I always breathe a sigh of relief when it doesn’t happen. It’s the same in a lot of films too. So why do writers and filmmakers do this? And why did I?
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The Rape of the Levite Woman
[Image credit: New York, Pierpont Morgan Library, MS M 638, f. 16.]
I think there are several different issues here. ‘The Black Hours’ is historical fiction. It is set in the seventeenth century. Alice is a young woman; she is poor, vulnerable. She lives alone with her grandmother. Her parents are dead. She has no male protector; no husband, brother, father to look out for her. I wanted to portray something realistic, something authentic. Young, vulnerable girls have always been the victims of crimes like this. It would have been unrealistic and doing history and women a disservice not to have portrayed what, in reality, would most likely have happened to her. This is what happened to women – what still happens to women. And while I respect every reader’s opinion, I stand by what I wrote. Alice suffers, because women suffered. The rape has devastating consequences for her; realistic consequences.
I have read quite a lot of historical fiction in which women behave in ways that are just not historically accurate. In reality, they had very limited freedom, even those that were well off. Women were essentially the property of men, and dreadful things happened to them. To portray them as feisty heroines, shrugging off danger, having freedom, is unrealistic and gives a false view of history. Yes, there are exceptions to this, but even queens were expected to marry and reproduce, to defer to their husbands. What do we think life was like for ordinary women?
However, while I feel that historical fiction has a duty to be realistic, to be authentic and to show the way women have been treated, other types of fiction have a different role to play. If we portray rape as inevitable, then we add to the cycle. Rape happens far too often. According to Rape Crisis, approximately 85,000 women are raped in England and Wales every year. One in five women aged 16-59 has experienced some form of sexual violence since the age of sixteen. I know this is a contentious issue, and there will be some who don’t agree with me, but I do think the repeated portrayal of rape in films, on TV and in books normalises it. It becomes the expected, the inevitable. Although the issues surrounding rape are obviously very complex, our culture and society does have a role to play and a responsibility. If young men see rape on the screen, read about it in books, then surely they are at risk of becoming desensitised – surely there is a risk that rape becomes something that just happens? Yes, there is a place in fiction for the portrayal of rape, but when it becomes matter of course, when women are repeatedly portrayed as potential rape victims, then writers are adding to the problem.
There is another issue to throw into the mix. Hiding rape, hiding sexual violence, not discussing it, pretending it doesn’t happen, does women no service either. Fiction can help in bringing the issue out into the open, giving women someone to identify with, helping women to tell their own stories.
So, for me, the answer is context. I do understand that reader’s point. And while I believe the rape scene was necessary in that context, I do think that writers need to think extremely carefully about how they portray rape in fiction, and to ask themselves if they really need to include it. Rape shouldn’t be ignored or avoided, but neither should it be the inevitable fate of female characters.
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(And I hope she gets those flying cars too.)
Alison Williams lives in Hampshire with her husband, two teenage children, and a variety of pets including a mad cocker spaniel, a rescue Labrador, a psychotic cat and two of the most unsociable rabbits in existence. She is an independent novelist, freelance editor and writer. As an editor, Alison works mainly with independent authors and has edited everything from erotica, memoirs and poetry to children’s books and fantasy. When she has any time left at all, she enjoys blogging, reading, going to the gym and listening to music (she has an obsession with Johnny Marr), and watching The Sopranos (again). From 2011-2012 she studied for a Masters in Creative Writing with the University of Glasgow. As part of her studies, Alison wrote her first novel ‘The Black Hours’ – available now from Amazon, Smashwords, Barnes and Noble, Sony and the Apple Store. ‘Blackwater’, the prequel to ‘The Black Hours’ is available free as an eBook from all the above outlets. Both can be read as standalones.
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NOTE: my review of The Black Hours is here

Great post about an important issue, if you have read Alison’s book and want to show your support, she is currently one of the authors nominated for this years Rosie Amber book awards, there is just one day left of voting and you can place your vote here http://wp.me/P2Eu3u-8wt – hope you don’t mind the plus here, Barb’s also up for an award in another genre, do check them out.
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Thanks, Rosie! And please readers–do go to http://wp.me/P2Eu3u-8wt and vote. It’s super quick, and will really help recognize both writers and reviewers. So, so appreciated!
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Excellent post, very well put. (And chocolate and Guinness cake is my absolute favourite 🙂 )
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Alison’s points about the facts and reality of women’s vulnerability are depressingly applicable to today in many ways.
(And yes—Guinness cake is so scary good, especially with that incredible frosting.)
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Very well written Alison. I haven’t read The Black Hours yet but I have heard great things about it and am really looking forward to doing so. I was staggered by the figure you put in here for the number of women raped each year and of course those are only the ones that are reported. I think you are quite right for it to be included in your book if that is what would have happened. This is a subject that shouldn’t be shied away from but I totally agree with you about it being used gratuitously. What sort of message is that sending to men? It takes long enough for things to move on anyway without the constant reinforcement that on some level this might be ok.
On a lighter note, the subject of equal pay. My daughter can’t believe that when I was her age it was an issue and that it is still one that is yet to be resolved.
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About the pay thing – I know, it’s amazing to think that it was ever just accepted without question now, isn’t it!!! How far we have come. As for The Black Hours, you should SO read it!
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So true!
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Thanks so much for having me on your blog Barb – and that cake is wonderful (please send recipe!)
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Here’s the link. But it should come with a warning label…
http://www.nigella.com/recipes/view/chocolate-guinness-cake-3086
(oh, and it’s so incredibly dense and moist that it really works better baked in a bundt pan)
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Very pleased to be on Barb Taub’s blog today writing about an issue that, as a woman, as a mother, and as a feminist is so important to me.
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That’s me giving you a round of applause, Alison. I thnk you said it all, and I mean ALL of it, about all the topics up for discussion here – the ‘if you put it out on show you must expect it to be criticised’ (on that note, when tweeting during The Apprentice last week I said one of the contestants was boring. He objected to this via a tweet to me, and I expressed those very sentiments!), the writing of historical heriones like those of modern day chick lit, and the woman who thought your rape scene was gratuitious….
….it wasn’t. I read The Black Hours some time ago, and would recommend it to anyone, whether you’re a lover of historical fiction or not, Alison is a terrific writer.
Barb, I am actually writing this en route to Casa Taub, for that chocolate and Guinness cake. I don’t want the recipe, I will be standing over you with a baseball bat until you make me one. 😉
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You’re so right about the way Alison chose to describe the rape scene. Clearly not meant as sexual titillation, but appropriate to the story and the historical setting.
And about that baseball bat… I need VERY little encouragement to make this cake. The recipe is so simple that I might have accidentally memorized it.
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Excellent post and a topic that needs to be talked about, thought about and talked about some more. I have a teenaged daughter, who also can’t imagine a time when women didn’t have the right to own property, vote, control their bodies and receive fair pay for their work. But she can easily imagine being raped, because it is a part of her reality. She has seen it on television and movies and read about it for several years (and she is only 14). We have had many long discussions about what rape is and how she needs to behave to keep herself safe. Are these conversations I wish I didn’t have to have with her? Yes. Are they essential to her health and safety? Sadly, absolutely.
It is not easy to write about any sort of sexual abuse. As long as it continues to be our reality, though, I think we need to write about it, think about it and talk about it. If we stop, we do ourselves and our daughters a huge disservice.
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Those conversations with your daughter are of course essential. I’d like to think that every parent with a teenaged son is having conversations about what constitutes consent vs assault. I’d really like to think so…
Because (again as the mother of three daughters and now one granddaughter) the thing that STILL makes me absolutely furious is that we’re essentially passing along the message that it’s the victim’s fault because of what she wears, where she goes, and what she drinks. That means, as your daughters make decisions about their lives, they will be forced to consider whether they can take that job, pursue that opportunity, try that experience. And they will, inevitably, pay the cost for choosing to keep themselves safe.
I’m not just saying this. After decades in HR, I saw this play out over and over. Why do women who are just as competent, intelligent, and ambitious fall behind their male colleagues? Often it’s because they need to choose the safer option, perhaps even starting with their career choices.
As a parent, I’m terrified when I hear that my journalist daughter is heading into areas where assault on women is common. Or when I hear that my comedy-writer daughter is performing late at night in dubious areas. But I’m also proud of them for their choices, and enraged that they even had a choice to make.
Sorry about the rant! [climbs down from her soapbox…]
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Rant away! I think we need to rant. And to have those conversations with our teenaged sons. Unfortunately, I don’t have one, so I can only speak to my daughter about what consent is and how to make sure she’s always in a situation where she can say ‘no’ if she wants to. We’ve also talked a lot about what saying ‘yes’ means, which is also an important part of the conversation. I’m also saddened that I have to have the “always keep yourself safe” conversations with my teen, so you keep ranting until I don’t have to anymore! 🙂
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Those conversations are so important. I have a son (19) and a daughter (17) and can completely relate to your daughter’s feelings. I worry so much about both of them for different reasons but I have to say that I worry more for my daughter, perhaps unfairly, in that I know she’ll have to fight twice as hard for everything she wants and deserves. We have come a long way, but not nearly far enough and I’m frustrated beyond belief when I hear young girls say they aren’t feminists or that they don’t believe in feminism.
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Excellent post, agreed with every word. As Alison says, in literature context is all. As for Alison’s critic, to call rape ‘distasteful’ is rank understatement, though I realize the critic didn’t exactly mean it in that way.
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I think you’re right, Mags. I don’t see how Alison could be accused of contributing to a rape culture: she didn’t use the rape scene to “spice up” the book, nor did she make it sound like rape was an everyday fact of life that women take for granted. She explained the circumstances that left Alice vulnerable, but didn’t blame the victim.
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I’m also a feminist, but Barb can tell you, I’m not one to shy away from sensitive or controversial issues like rape, abortion, racism or women’s rights. Red Clay and Roses was a 1950s-60s book. It, too, would not have been realistic without those things. I did try to treat them with sensitivity, but took no pains to sugarcoat the realities of the time.
1) Amazon was in the process of taking down all books with the mention of rape in the book blurb, so I had to rewrite my blurb.
2) Awesome Indies gave me a critical review on both Amazon and Goodreads. Amazon agreed to take it down because they posted as a customer and it was a paid review company that should have given me the option of posting as editorial review not customer review, but it’s still up on Goodreads. While the review primarily focused on the fact that Sybil had sex before ashe developed much of a relationship with a man, Sybil was also unconventional for the times, they also sent me an email that the book should be flagged for rape and abortion as those are issues that a reader needs to know up front. I do understand that, but was given no choice and had to leave it up to the reviewers to mention those things. Sybil was ferociously independent and unconventional in her twenties, started her own business, lived by herself, took young women to get abortions and had an affair with a black man…all things that were unheard of in the deep south during that time period, but were part of her character. It was also a true story, and I kept no secrets. At 86 years old, she wanted her story told, and I told it.
I’m now writing crime fiction, a less likely place to be admonished for speaking out, but still a place where such subjects should be treated with sensitivity IMO. Murder, like rape, is in the news, on social media…it’s everywhere.
My current WIP deals with both murder and sex trafficking as well as child pornography. Again, I don’t shy away from sensitive issues and I don’t think we should. My history as a nurse has taught me that these things do need to be talked about, explored by writers. We are the voice of those who fear to speak.
Likewise, “I too am sick and tired of rape being the default fate for women in many books,” I agree it should be used in context, not indiscriminately, but if it is a working part of a story, it should not be ignored either.
I say kudos to you for sticking to the realistic impression and perception of people in your time period. Writing realistic impression and perception of people in this time period in contemporary fiction is also mandated, but should be treated respectfully.
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I read Red Clay and Roses about 18 months ago – and very much enjoyed it, if ‘enjoy’ is the correct word. Although I’m not a United States citizen, based on the plays of Tennessee Williams, I imagined it portrayed the location and period exceedingly well. The characters were well drawn too.
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Thank you for saying so. I’m thrilled. Location and period. That’s so true. I look forward to reading Alison’s book and am all the more intrigued that she stayed true to her character and the time period. It would loose points in authenticity if she didn’t.
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Just want to say thank you once again to you Barb for having me on your blog and letting me get this post out there and thanks so much to everyone who has commented so thoughtfully too.
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I’m the one who should be thanking you for your wonderful post. Please come back any time!
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This was a very interesting interview dealing, as it does, with a very sensitive but important topic, quite thought-provoking. Thanks also for drawing my attention to this book. I used to live near Chelmsford and work in Colchester so I know Coggeshall well and am aware of the “witch” history of the area. I am adding Williams’ book to my reading list.
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Coming in late to this thought provoking post. Thank you both.
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Excellent post and such a tough subject. I have included rape in my writing. It isn’t glamorized or sensationalized or graphic, and the consequences are devastating. When deciding whether to include rape, I ask myself two questions: Is it necessary to the plot? And am I willing to deal with the aftermath? If I can’t answer yes to both, I don’t include it.
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Thought provoking article, Alison. I think there is so much gritty violence portrayed in the media these days that no one takes any notice. Thats not to say they don’t care. I think most young people are well able to distinguish between fantasy and reality. In fact, I think they are better at it than my generation, where so much more was hidden and swept under the carpet. A great book or movie doesn’t need violence or sex to make it good, and it’s so gripping, you wouldn’t even notice these elements are missing. Oh, and I just bought your book. 😁
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Thank you 🙂 I think you’re right, and that it’s better to have things out in the open than swept under the carpet; it’s just a matter of striking the right balance. Hope you enjoy the book!
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I’m sure I will! 😊
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